Large size hatscaps, headbands with nets… It is increasingly common to see images in the media and social networks of brides choosing a touched for your wedding day; some even have two or three models to combine with their dresses. Although there are still many fiancées who feel a certain fear of this accessory, experts explain to us that interest in these pieces has grown considerably in recent years. The reason? The more images we see, the more familiar we become and we lose our fear. But there is still a long way to go and many doubts that we will try to answer throughout this article.
What should a bride take into account when choosing her headdress?
Both Isabel Terroso, creator of Balelas Ana María Chico de Guzmánfounder of Mimokithey are very clear about this answer. The more information about the wedding and the bride, the better. “You have to take into account many things: the time of year you are getting married, the time, the environment, what the dress is like, what your features are like, what your hair is like, what the earrings you are going to wear are like, what other accessories she is going to wear, whether it is the one she is going to enter the church with or it is for the second dress… The more information the better, because everything is part of a set and everything has to be in accordance,” says Isabel.
What is better to choose first, the headdress or the hairstyle?
In this case, both experts once again agree. Ideally, it should be the headdress that determines the choice of hairstyle, so that there is greater freedom. “Normally we try to do it at the same time, unless it is very clear. If it is a bride who is used to always wearing her hair down, for example, we take this into account to choose a headdress that is already adapted to that hairstyle. If you don’t have that preconceived idea, it’s great because we try with the freedom that we can then choose the hairstyle,” says Ana María.
Is there one type of headdress that is sought after more than another?
Although there are brides who prefer more timeless designs, just as happens in the case of guests, trends usually rule. The bows have had a lot of prominence and now, the mesh options are triumphing. “But in reality we make many very different structures and of different sizes. The truth is that we are very lucky with our brides, because they are very special and have a lot of personality, a lot of style and they like to come and enjoy the process and that allows us to create many different designs,” says Ana María.
Isabel, for her part, tells us that the fiancees who come to her are looking, above all, for elegant pieces. “I think it’s common in everyone, they always want headdresses with a touch of elegance. I say elegance because in the world of headdresses the line is very fine between what is elegant and what is a little carnivalesque. People find it It’s scary to fall into that when you put something on your head.”
Brides are often advised to choose a dress that is temporary, that will survive the test of time well. Is it the same with the headdress?
Experts are not very in favor of choosing a timeless piece unless that is the desire (and taste) of the bride. They think it is better to opt for a creation that truly adapts to what the bride wants. “The important thing is that it fits the person and the context,” says Isabel. “I try to interpret what they want. There are people who do want something that they will always like and that will last over time, but there are also people who are much more about living in the moment, and their look is more trendy. And with the touched, the same thing happens,” confirms Ana María.
Veil more touched, yes or no?
There are brides who are very clear that they want to wear a veil on their wedding day, but they would also like to wear a headdress and are wondering whether or not they are compatible. Both the creator of Mimoki and Balel agree that veils often work better if they are combined with a suitable piece that helps hold them in place, place them in a more original way, and give them a different look. And Ana María shares several ideas: “You can wear a tiara that then has the veil behind it or you can make a crown where you wear the veil in a thousand ways. You can wear it only tied back, from the ears, from the top, covering the You can wear just one detail, a comb for example, on the side and have the veil fall as if centered. Or you can even go veiled with a headdress and then, when you wear the veil back, the headdress can be covered or left open. air”.
A tip for the bride to choose her headdress well
In this case, we want to share the advice of both experts. They are different, but complementary.
Ana María Chico de Guzmán: “First, if she is accompanied, let it always come from the same person, someone she really trusts, who she knows will support her and respect her decision. Let her follow her intuition a lot, but Let them take advice. Sometimes they come with something they have seen at a wedding or on Instagram and they want it for themselves, but maybe it has nothing to do with the dress they have chosen or the materials that go with the fabrics. that they have, or they don’t have the same hair. And that they participate a lot in the process and enjoy it, then that is what you remember with a much more special affection.
Isabel Terroso: “Let someone who really knows advise you, not by a shop assistant or someone who designs dresses. The person who designs dresses often goes beyond their territory and often makes mistakes. Then many times Brides come to the workshop, try them on and realize what looks good on them. Many times they are surprised and there are times when they come thinking that they are not going to wear a headdress because they have a very important dress and in the end they wear it because. It is what closes the circle and gives meaning to everything. A well-chosen headdress is essential to feel complete. Sometimes without a headdress you are half dressed, no matter how fantastic the dress is, if the head is not well put together the style remains the same. incomplete”.